Can Emotional Intelligence
be developed? While some researchers believe that emotional intelligence is an
inborn characteristic, others which includes us at the Rankein Scale, believe
that emotional intelligence can be learned, developed and strengthened. Many individuals have enhanced their emotional intelligence
when they put their minds to it.
In the workplace we believe that emotional
intelligence can be learned and strengthened, but only when an employee understands
how emotional intelligence can be used in the workplace and in our case the
health and care sector.
Peter Salovey and John D.
Mayer, leading emotional intelligence researchers, recognise four aspects of
emotional intelligence: “the perception of emotion, the ability to reason using
emotions, the ability to understand emotion and the ability to manage
emotions.”
Examples of skills that a
person with high emotional intelligence might display in these aspects include:
The capacity to listen so intently that he or she can hear the
words not spoken by paying attention to tone of voice, inflection, pauses, and
other cues.
Awareness of and ability to read body language and other non verbal communication that includes facial expressions,
The ability to control and handle frustration, anger, sorrow,
joy, annoyance, and other emotions, recognising
and reacting to the impact that his or her words and actions are having on
coworkers, whether they inform the manager of the impact, or not,
Understanding the underlying emotion of a communication from a
staff member and responding as effectively to the emotional aspects of the
communication as to the stated needs, and effectively interpreting the cause of
the emotion expressed by a colleague. That sad, dejected posture can indicate a
significant issue at home as well as an unresolved work issue.
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